Hey everyone,
Let’s get real for a minute. Depression. It’s one of those topics that feels heavy, uncomfortable, and maybe even a little taboo to bring up. But here’s the thing: it shouldn’t be. Depression is a part of so many people’s lives, whether it’s their own experience or someone they care about. So, let’s talk about it—openly, honestly, and without judgment.
First off, depression isn’t just “feeling sad.” It’s not something you can snap out of with a pep talk or a good night’s sleep. It’s a complex mental health condition that can affect every part of a person’s life—how they think, feel, and function. It’s like carrying an invisible weight that no one else can see, but you feel it with every step you take.
And here’s the kicker: depression doesn’t discriminate. It doesn’t care how old you are, what you do for a living, or how “perfect” your life looks from the outside. It can show up uninvited and stick around way longer than anyone wants it to.
But here’s what I’ve learned over the years: talking about it helps. It doesn’t “fix” everything, but it takes away some of the power that stigma and silence hold. When we share our experiences, we remind each other that we’re not alone. And that’s huge.
If you’re struggling with depression, please know this: it’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to ask for help. It’s okay to take things one day—or even one moment—at a time. You don’t have to have it all figured out, and you don’t have to face it alone.
And if you’re supporting someone with depression, remember: sometimes the best thing you can do is just be there. Listen without judgment. Offer kindness without expecting them to “get better” on your timeline. Your presence matters more than you know.
Let’s normalize talking about mental health. Let’s check in on each other, not just when things seem “off,” but regularly. Let’s create spaces where people feel safe to say, “I’m not okay,” without fear of being misunderstood or dismissed.
Depression is tough, but so are we. And together, we can make it a little less lonely.
Take care of yourselves, and each other.
With love,
Chika Mordi
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P.S. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional or a trusted support line. You’re worth it.
